~My Life Paintings~

Yesterday, watch season 4 of Sex in the City..had to skip season 3 since the dvd's were not good...looks like I have to go out and get it..hmm..

Later in the evening..went and picked up Kiah & headed to Cheras for make-up testing for Faizah who is getting engaged tomorrow morning...congrats Faizah! Well..took us almost an hour to reach there..tu la..nak sangat lalu ulu langat tu..pening je jalan..nasib baik ada Kiah with me..at least kalau sesat..ada member! I have not been on that road for like 10 years...main redah je..nasib baik tak sesat..

Sampai2 je..ktrg dah lapar..so Kiah gan tak malunya dah bgtau Faizah that we are hungry..heh terus dia order Pizza Hut..& then called Adriza to see if she cud join us..dia pun sampai within half an hour..terrer tul..tak sesat pun..siap blagak lak tu..having Kiah & Adriza there mmg memeriahkan suasana...they were like kanak2 ribena running around kejar each other n all..it was really funny..(teringat lak zaman sekolah derang duq main kejar2 with Sri in the lab masa chemistry..pening Pn.Halimatus tu!) & somehow while we were talking about the BBGS days, Adriza mentioned about these gang the Destroyer's (ntah betul tak eja tu)..ntah pape la korang..beria je ada geng..konon2 gempak la zaman sekolah dulu (siap conteng2 meja!)...tapi I sikit pun tak tau about it until yesterday! hahahah

Tengah borak2 tu..teringat lak of one insident just before spm, our class teacher Pn.Rozai, bagi masa for us to study in the class..so semua diam tgh blaja..tetibe Kiah came over to Faizah's place to ask some add math questions...I was in front of Faizah, just turn to the back & we ended up talking & chatting away. Then Pn Rozai spotted us talking (but did not really see me talking), called up Faizah & Fikriah to the front...kena marah & kena ketuk ketampi..lawak giler..they were trying to tell the teacher that I was involved as well in that chit chating group, but me being smart..buat bodo & buat buat study so Pn Rozai did not call me up (u see, I had that good girl look) & depa 2 org je kena ketuk ketampi kat depan tu, siap kena threaten tu...kalo tak buat kena potong markah for some paper ntah..I was laughing away...mmg gelak gile nak pecah perut (the whole class was)... I was just lucky I would say..because..I mmg was chit chatting with them!! sampai skang derang tak puas ati with me!! muahahahaha...that's really funny! Sorry la korang!!

Then after dinner, at about 9pm, we started the main make-up2, I was the "mak andam" for Faizah..yeah I was testing to make sure I wouldn't make a disaster of her face on her engagement day...& Kiah was testing power on Adriza...they were trying out the smokey eye ala Avril tu..boleh la..dalam 75% jadi..so sesapa nak guna services Kiah (nama glemer Fik!), just let me know...

Make up je 1 hour..pastu testing tudung another 2 hours..wahh..big deal tau nak pakai tudung apa, serkup apa, selendang mana..& the accesories sekali...by the time we finished playing & fooling around with all the make-up, tudung & picture taking, we were so tired that we juz took Faizah's offer to stay over..it was already 1am then..tak kuasa lah nak drive back..

We stayed up borak2,looking at the school magazine sampai 3am..it was nice looking back at how everyone has progressed since 10 years ago...so now I really need to start organizing the 10 year reunion..Eliana!! lets start calling people up for the 1st committee meeting..seriously..dah lama postpone..kang tak jadi..sedey je...

I really need to organize my time...who want's to gimme a course on Time Management? :) hehe

I am just wondering…do I have certain qualities that actually put people off? It’s just that I have been keeping some disturbing behavior in my mind about certain types of people & I actually wonder if I do the same to people…

Been thinking of some things that gets to me…

For example,
· If people are nice to you, doesn’t mean you get to walk all over them

· If people ask for your opinion / feedback, give it to them in a nice way, don’t just say what ever that comes to mind without thinking of other people’s feelings, especially if its more than one person around.

· If you want to maintain a good friendship with someone, don’t embarrass them, even if you think you are helping, because you are not. Put yourself in their shoes, do you think they can’t see what’s going on? What’s with the denial? Is it to show that you have a certain power over someone or something?

· If people like you, don’t play with their feelings, if you want to give them a chance, give, if you don’t move on, don’t leave people hanging or don’t give people hope unnecessarily. It’s a cruel thing anyone can do.

· If people give compliments, it’s sometimes better to keep it to yourself or you can just tell a close friend or two, telling people i.e. like ‘the whole world’ sometimes just shouts for more attention and it disgusts certain people. Just stop the attention seeking, attention is already given, want more? Become a celebrity…that should do the trick…

· If you know you have a certain power over people, don’t act or behave as if you don’t know, it is annoying to people that you are behaving oblivious

· If you think or feel that you are NOT beautiful, rich, loved, fair, dark etc ENOUGH when you know you have all those, don’t go on saying that you don’t have it…don’t you know how to appreciate the goodness that you are granted with? Or are you just fishing for more compliments? Or are you just trying to make the person who doesn’t have it all feel a lot worse so that you get to feel superior?

· If you want to tell someone a secret, make sure you don’t go around telling or acting mysterious to person you’re trying to hide it from, that person is no BOZO, he/she knows there’s something going on, and don’t get the person who you told the secret to into trouble with people, that’s just pure selfish & thoughtless!

· If you are no longer close to someone, don’t think you are, just let it go, don’t expect anything from that person, its just that you wont get what you expect i.e. invitation to hang out in a group or anything at all…they just don’t remember you as a friend, no point trying to remind them…its really pointless…just let them be

· If you really want to retain a friendship with your friends, just call them up and talk, chit chat…whatever... don’t just call them when you are in difficulty or in need, your friend will eventually pull away from you or even just ignore you.

· If people invite you (to a party, to hang out, to help on occasions), especially if they are someone close or you consider a friend, try to make it, if you keep turning down invitations or don’t even bother to respond to it, he/she will also pull away from you, there’s no point having a friendship which is a one way street.

· If you are in a group and it’s always that someone making plans, organizing for occasions, calling up or emailing the group members, don’t you think that this person that keeps having to organize or do the arrangements will get fed up? Take turns, don’t just expect that someone to always have to do the planning or organizing, even for things like a movie, a get together dinner, karaoke or even anything, what’s wrong if you organizing it too once in a while. Does this mean if this someone doesn’t do or say anything, there will be no meeting at all? So is that how it’s going to be? Looks like it…

Btw this is not intended for a specific person...It's just things that I have gathered the past few months...

On the Federal day...we, Eliana, Myra, Azita & me went karaoke-ing... dah lama tak pegi...Azita yang bekerja at PD pun sanggup amik halfday just to join us at Pavillion...hehhe..we were there from 1+ to 6pm, I had to leave earlier at 5pm to make it on time for tahlil at Kelana Jaya...sorry guys, I had to leave...but then the tahlil didn't start as 6pm as planned...it started after maghrib prayers...hah! I should have just stayed at pavillion until 6pm!

Annoying gak la..when I try to be on time for things like this..it starts late..then I'll just automatically go back to being late, not that i want to...its just human behaviour...juz when im trying to change for the better...hmm..this always happens to me... :(

Been so lazy to update on this activity...since tak dapat gambar2 yet...anyway..last Sunday, 27 Jan 08 - went Paintballing with the cousins..war of the cousins 2...this time I tak kena tembak teruk sangat, but kena jugak lah towards the end...bertubi2 kena kat kaki!...but Burhan, Abg Boy & Natasha kena tembak sampai terluar kulit..ouch!! (Nat cried sebab sakit sangat!). Well nice tattoo they made for themselves there..anyway..all players mmg kena lebam2..sampai today pun tak hilang lagi... I think i had enough of paintball la..so cousins..next time..go somewhere not so extreme lagi eh...like bowling ke.. :)

Anyway..we were suppose to meet at TT subang at 2pm but every came late..2.45pm all were there... except for Abg boy! so we started to play first..

Team 1 : Amrul, Reza, Qholif, Sabrina & Me (the winninng team!!)

Team 2 : Burhan, Boboy, Abg Boy, Shereen & Natasha

Hmm...the ladies yang join is all the singles..semua yang dah kawin ni dah tak berani play this extreme sports sebab tak tahan sakit! ..so all of them jadi AJK makanan..there was egg & sardine sandwiches, KFC, keropok lekor, curry puffs & of course minuman wajib, Coke & some other drinks 100 plus & revive...Thanks AJK makanan...we had enuf to eat & drink...

Awaiting the pictures from Magodot, LV & Sab?? haih..dunno when will I ever get them...

Congrats to Shaheeran (LV) and kak Leen...more nieces/nephews on the way...yay!

Anyway..it was a fun outing with the cousins, thanks to Amrul for organizing it again!

Later after paintball, dengan badan sakit2 semua...went to aunty pah's birthday party...she turn 63 kalo tak salah...semoga panjang umur murah rezeki...May you be in good health...Amin..