Girls and stupidity

I juz don't get these girls...why go after a guy who is not interested to marry you? If they already expressed it (not interested in marriage with you) or behave in that manner why chase them..? Don't you want someone who wants to marry you instead of someone only YOU want to marry? Have some pride for God's sake! What kinda of life would that be for you if you end up getting married? You think you could be happy forcing, guilting or tricking someone into marrying you? Regardless if the guy is single or married (worse still going after a married men who doesn't even want you)..but can you girls think of your future? If they don't want you now, what's gonna make them stay after marriage? It's headed for you know what lah!

Even if they layan you now, doesn't mean they are gonna marry you, wake up! If they are not interested..that's it! The end..if eventually they come back saying they want a marriage look at the situation most of the time it's because they don't know or dont have any direction (so they juz stick with the easiest option) or their life as they know it vanished and he is juz back to using you like before ... juz having fun and filling in his spare time..until he feels like leaving!

I know..I'm not in love..it's easy for me to say it..but when people around you keep telling you to open your eyes...for God's sake listen to them! Especially when those telling you are genuine trusted friends or family members.

That's it..letting off some steam..