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Secretaries Week: Lunch @ Kebabish - StarPoints Hotel

Funny thing...none of us are secretaries, but we attend it anyways, it was a small scale cousins get-to-gether for lunch which rarely happens...!


Thanks Farah for the Invitation, we had fun with your stories...Lunch till 4pm? yeah we do that! haha

Gossip Gurls started the their Gossips!...
The Cousins meet!

and after that it was "Date Night" at KLCC - it was fun...enjoyed my day...tq kazens!

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11 things we did not learn

From a forwarded email...on Bill Gates speech...truthful facts:

He talks about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world.

Rule 1 : Life is not fair - get used to it!

Rule 2 : The world doesn't care about your self-esteem.. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

Rule 3 : You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.

Rule 4 : If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.

Rule 5 : Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity.

Rule 6 : If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault , so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them.

Rule 7 : Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now.. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.

Rule 8 : Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.

Rule 9 : Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time.

Rule 10 : Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.

Rule 11 : Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one.

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'like with thumbs up'

These are quotes that I currently like, or would put a thumbs up 'like' on fb...because I get what it’s about or somehow it is relevant to me at this point in my life.

yup... I juz love watching Greys Anatomy, and here are some quotes from Meredith Grey...

“At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That's how we're made. So, you can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines... that are way too dangerous to cross.”

“Maybe we like the pain. Maybe we're wired that way. Because without it, I don't know; maybe we just wouldn't feel real. What's that saying? Why do I keep hitting myself with a hammer? Because it feels so good when I stop.”

“Communication. It's the first thing we really learn in life. Funny thing is, once we grow up, learn our words and really start talking, the harder it becomes to know what to say. Or how to ask for what we really need.”

“Sometimes reality has a way of sneaking up and biting us in the ass. And when the dam bursts, all you can do is swim. The world of pretend is a cage, not a cocoon. We can only lie to ourselves for so long. We are tired; we are scared, denying it doesn't change the truth. Sooner or later we have to put aside our denial and face the world. Head on, guns blazing. De Nile. It's not just a river in Egypt, it's a freakin' ocean. So how do you keep from drowning in it?”

“Pain, you just have to ride it out, hope it goes away on its own, hope the wound that caused it heals. There are no solutions, no easy answers, you just breath deep and wait for it to subside. Most of the time pain can be managed but sometimes the pain gets you where you least expect it. Hits way below the belt and doesn't let up. Pain, you just have to fight through, because the truth is you can't outrun it and life always makes more.”

“I've heard that it's possible to grow up - I've just never met anyone who's actually done it. Without parents to defy, we break the rules we make for ourselves. We throw tantrums when things don't go our way, we whisper secrets with our best friends in the dark, we look for comfort where we can find it, and we hope - against all logic, against all experience. Like children, we never give up hope...”

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my first time @ Sepang F1 Circult...

So we came back from Ipoh on Saturday night, after Dina & Azril's wedding on Saturday @ noon, we stopped for our Nasi Ganja, puas makan nasi on Saturday! & later on had Baskin Robins @ Jusco Ipoh, melampau kan...tp best! with no guilty feelings pun! haha.

It was great! going for F1...never thought I'd actually go, but when Put had extra tix from Im & Nana, I just said "Yes" without much thought. I was suppose to spend my sunday completing and refining my assignments, but F1 free tix was way better! Thank you guys..I really enjoyed it!

We didn't have the tickets at hand, so we were kinda not sure where to park, so what did we do? We juz went straight to KLIA and parked there, we reached at 3pm, got a cab to F1 Sepang Circuit and the cost? RM42.10! *hahah* We are damn good at wasting money (ala 7 pounds je *poyo*)...anyways, at least we reached there fast, the jam wasn't bad as most people were already there. Got off the cab at the drop off zone, bought a RM5 earplug & hooped on to the shuttle bus that was ready leave, we were there 10mins to 4pm, but had spent time locating Nana & Im, so kinda missed the line up...but we heard it all, at least something...

Then we saw Nana, she passed us our tix, and gave us a ride to our Crystal Suite on the buggy..jadi jakun jap...first time on it! Ohh yeah, my first time there & I got the Grand Stand tix...lucky me! Thanks a lot Nana, Im & Put! We watched for a bit, like 13 laps (sempat la tgk Schumacher out), *woahh the noisee even with the earplug*! then went off to grab some food, food there is expensive, expected but still (like 3x increase!) RM6 for Sugar Cane drink, RM5 for a carbonated drink, and the food at the range of RM18 to RM25...but then, we bumped into Nana & Im, so guess what, we got free food! it's not juz any free food, its lunch & tea set prepared by Hard Rock, huge burger, kenyang sampai malam!...

Went back when they were at 40 laps and watched the remaining race, I was kinda confused most of the time, so I juz watched it at the screen and picked up what was going on and who was out by that time...the rest is in the news, we left ard 6.40+, got some souvenirs and got a ride back to KLIA from Egy's dad, slamat! Then lepak minum jap at KLIA & left after an hour, parking was RM16.50 (incase ur wondering!)

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it's complicated

It could be possible that I am going thru this in my own way...hmm

Five Stages Of Grief (from
here)
1. Denial and Isolation.
At first, we tend to deny the loss has taken place, and may withdraw from our usual social contacts. This stage may last a few moments, or longer.

2. Anger.
The grieving person may then be furious at the person who inflicted the hurt (even if she's dead), or at the world, for letting it happen. He may be angry with himself for letting the event take place, even if, realistically, nothing could have stopped it.

3. Bargaining.
Now the grieving person may make bargains with God, asking, "If I do this, will you take away the loss?"

4. Depression.
The person feels numb, although anger and sadness may remain underneath.

5. Acceptance.
This is when the anger, sadness and mourning have tapered off. The person simply accepts the reality of the loss

hurm, I think I did go through this 5 stages when I realized that put on that 23kg's I lost...and I am already at the 5th stage where my weight is concern, I accept myself now, although I am still trying to loose weight & be healthy.


nope..no one died, I'm juz going through a loss, not gonna say what I felt like I lost, but it's gone, I can feel it. Or I may be overeacting & being a drama queen!

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goodbye march...

April's here...Hurm..juz updating the usual ‘me’ stuff…went for “Clash of the Titan’s” last night with Put, Ayna, Tasya, Put pdk, Ikin & Arif, I don’t really follow these stories on Greek Gods, but I kinda enjoyed this one…and it was dinner at Rawsha after. No pictures this time, all in Put Pdk’s camera, we kinda celebrated her so belated bday with a small choc cake (from Ayna), it was nice…then Put sent me home *thanx a lot* and I had to pack for my Ipoh trip…and pass the luggage to Put, why? Because we’re leaving tonight and I’ll be heading to class after work (mama's dropping) and then Arif has agreed to pick me up! *thanx!* see what I go thru not owning a car…Thank God for the friends & family I have…*:D*…A car?...yeah soon maybe, if I still don’t get a job overseas, then I’ll get one (It’s juz hard to commit!)

Other than that, been going jogging at KLCC park with the CV i.e. Put, Ayna & Tasha, Put calls us her Constant Variables (CV) which has become mine too…Ok..it’s lie, I don’t jog, I juz walk, about 3 rounds and by that time it gets dark, well good enough for a start right? Yeah so that happens like once a week on a fix day, which I shall not mention here…

On work there’s a lot to do and I will be swamped soon…been asking for more to do and now I have it, no more boring days for me *yeay*. I hopefully I am able to meet or exceed their expectations; it’s scary if I don’t! I don’t want to be that kinda person too…hmm

On the study, one assignment is due on the 5th and I am ever so lazy to complete it! Looks like it’s gonna be a last minute production as usual, since I am off to Ipoh tonite (nasi ganja yes!!)! Then there’s exams coming up...again…now I am waiting for May to come, after exams, partteeyyyy! (Which translate to vacation or jalan2…*weeeee!*)

Does my life sound cheerful to you? I have been kinda depressed lately too, out of my own doing, but I can’t help it, I felt something and acted on it. But it has caused some damage, which makes me feel really bad and I can’t really talk about it to anyone, it’s complicated. So being silent is not good but what ever la, so there you go, friendship is not easy and I’m thinking…am I that bad?

My uncle juz forwarded this:
Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character;
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

I'm watching it!

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