I juz don't get these girls...why go after a guy who is not interested to marry you? If they already expressed it (not interested in marriage with you) or behave in that manner why chase them..? Don't you want someone who wants to marry you instead of someone only YOU want to marry? Have some pride for God's sake! What kinda of life would that be for you if you end up getting married? You think you could be happy forcing, guilting or tricking someone into marrying you? Regardless if the guy is single or married (worse still going after a married men who doesn't even want you)..but can you girls think of your future? If they don't want you now, what's gonna make them stay after marriage? It's headed for you know what lah!
Even if they layan you now, doesn't mean they are gonna marry you, wake up! If they are not interested..that's it! The end..if eventually they come back saying they want a marriage look at the situation most of the time it's because they don't know or dont have any direction (so they juz stick with the easiest option) or their life as they know it vanished and he is juz back to using you like before ... juz having fun and filling in his spare time..until he feels like leaving!
I know..I'm not in love..it's easy for me to say it..but when people around you keep telling you to open your eyes...for God's sake listen to them! Especially when those telling you are genuine trusted friends or family members.
That's it..letting off some steam..
Girls and stupidity
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A Team!
It was an entertaining show..we were laughing away...kiah & I (dedua amik half day & ended up watching movie...). It was suppose to be juz lunch meet up with Faizah... But hmm yeah movie after that! I wasn't feeling well...but I thought why waste my precious half day annual leave sleeping at home.. Might as well use it wisely :D
Anyway..next is Sex in The City 2 today! Wuhuuu!
Soon
Been thinking of privatising my blog lately...I might juz do it...so for those who follow me...you know the drill...send your emails for an invite...
If you are curious...I'm not running from anything or anyone or any stalkers...thank God for that but I juz feel like it...
Commitment
So I put up a commitment on my FB and I hope I can stick to it! Thanks for the loadz of support...it makes me even more motivated right now...juz hope the motivation is here to stay this time round! :D
I have been failing at all diet progams and I'm doing it my way now...wish me luck!
Gone are the days...
People stop telling me stuff...I have been shun out and have become a person that don't matter. Well finding out the big news from someone else or from fb is a sign enough to know i'm irrelevant. Communication with me cease when they find love or they are in a relationship, the moment breakups comes in, they look for me, or when they get married and reliaze they have lost their friendships with the others or maybe when they miss me after a few years, they come back...yes i'm used to being the door mat, have it your way, if I end up treating you that way in the future, don't blame me...hey i'm only human...and there is a limit to how much I can take. When I stop caring, I stop.
*Picture from a forwarded email*
RT @ihatequotes: If you start to miss me, remember, I didnt walk away, you let me go. (a tweet for you) -@TheLoveStrings #ihatequotes
da secret game..
Try play this game...found it while I was reading my daily secret teachings on my hp...
My results for the Secret Memory Game (kinda true for what I was feeling when I was doing it!)...
64.There is a huge difference between inspired action and busying yourself with activity in trying to make things happen. When you are busying yourself with activity because you don’t believe the Universe is working with you, everything is hard and feels like a struggle. You feel as though you are pushing against the current of the river and getting nowhere. You feel exhausted, things begin to go wrong, and it feels like nothing is going your way. But when you are working consciously with the intelligence of the Universe, everything is effortless. All your needs to accomplish your vision are met, and you are in a flow that is indescribable.
the splendid week!
It was a great week…started off the back2back birthday celebrations for Jun babies at ‘The Magnificent’ on 2nd June, the fish & chips was almost as good as the ones at UK..close enough...
Happy Birthday to Lop & Rod (3rd June) & Put (6th June)! Dinner was great…
Next was the surprise birthday dinner for Put on 3rd June…with 2 days notice from her dad…we managed to pull this one off…thanks to all involved! Was she SURPRISED? hell yeah!!
Let’s see, I planned a dinner with the upper kes gang, so she didn’t suspect anything was gonna happen, Arif took care of the cake (cupcakes from Wonderland!) & balloons, while Ayna handled the cousins & family invites…Imran, Nana & Egy distracted her by taking her out for a movie…a horrible one apparently! Hahaha …and by 8.30pm upperkes were there, huda & baim just walked in and got a separate table, then sharil & tomek arrived and I summoned Put to join them, leaving Imran, Nana & Egy to be free to meet the family, almost kantoi at MPH bookstores as most of the family n cousins were there, and they had to hide from her! That’s funny, but she was oblivious, did not notice them, thank god for that! Hahah…
I arrived at Italianies by 8.40pm with Elaine, yeah I was late, huh organizer got stuck in the rain n ampang madness jam (1.5 hrs)! It looked normal too since I'm like always late! Anyways, luckily not that late, so we were talking n having dinner as usual, we ordered and went ahead with dinner, it seemed more real…and by 9pm this big group of ppl juz walked in from the back and surprised her...with the cake & balloons and the party hat for the birthday gurl, it was definitely havoc for a moment, heck I was surprised too…since they came in without texting me, I wasn’t ready with the camera even!
She got loadz of presents mostly from her wish list published on FB – something like 11 books!…and the present from her parents…the one that she wanted but was afraid of having it, since she calls her friends, cousins n family zombies…well now she has become one…welcome to the smart world phone Put!
Next day, 4th June, off to JB, Nat joined in last minute…delaying our journey (tertinggal passport lah!)...and causing us not to get the nasi lemak at Ayer Keroh! Huhu, we reached JB at 2am++. Put drove all the way, while nat & I took turns to sleep heh…dera the bday gurl sket..
Next day, 5th June: off to Singapore with Put, Izan & Nat…Got stuck 2 hrs to get into S’pore…we reached at 3pm, this trip was for us to supposedly juz chill & eat Swenson’s, but…as the Great Sale was on...we ended up shopping !:D … Charles & Keith…really made me spend! Later at night, we manage to visit my cousin Noria’s newborn Lil Daanish @ 3 mths too…thanks to Izan for making this Singapore trip happen!
Later on the way back from Singapore, enduring another round of Jam, we stopped at Singgah Selalu for dinner…it was already 11pm by then…and lepas makan…another round of celebration for the bday gurl…well…she didn’t know this cake was coming too…hahah..tensen je Put asyik kena tipu by me…which means by lying skills has gotten better…*Yes!!*
Happy Birthday Put! Enjoy the last of the twenties…next year I know ur gonna pull a Rachel & I’m suppose to slap you…but could we juz get out of the country and travel somewhere instead!!?!!
Later that night we went crazy, instead of being normal, tired and just sleep, we went looking for wireless at mamak around JB…yeah at 3am jalan2 carik pasal…*mentang2 takde parents supervision* bila lagi nak buat keja gila kan…plus they don’t read our blogs, so it’s ok..hehe…we got back home ard 5am, nope, did not sleep…we watched GLEE ep21...after that, we pengsan..but not for long, there was some renovation work going on outside the house and to our horror, the workers worked on Sunday, so at 9am, the drilling and hammering was going on...so yeah, we woke up! Arghh..
So on 6th June, we went to watch Lagenda Budak Setan at Tebrau City, had lunch at Kenny Rogers, since it was the same level with GSC, too tired to walk…we juz wanted to eat n watch movie! Huhu..Izan couldn’t join us for the movie, but she did for dinner later at Sg Chat, Assam Pedas…Masak lemak situ mmg best…and the telur masin Udang thingy was good too..Nat came too with her friends later, and Mai, Safri & Adam (1 yrs +) came later…nice meeting them..Adam was having fever..kesian dia..
(Review LBS: ok for me, I didn’t read the book yet! And the actors & actress did a good job, it was like a snapshot of events, not the full story, but we get the story from the short scenes, but what’s with the camera close-ups?)
Finally 7th June: suppose to leave for KL…but we were too lazy! It’s like we didn’t wanna go home..hurm.. left the house 4pm+ and headed to George & Dragon for scones & mini lamb cutlet…nyumehh! Izan met up with us after work…lepak jap until 6.40pm, then we left JB… :(
Stop at Ayer Keroh for our Nasi Lemak…but no ayam rendang laks, we were too early this time…haih..macam2..
8th June: Woke up with a migraine, got half day leave and clocked in at 2pm at office...(^_^)
Here’s a birthday shout out to all June babies:
"Happy Birthday!! A year older...a year wiser...stay young at heart k!?"
03 June: Lop & Rod
05 June: Juliana AR
06 June: Put & Zahirra
07 June: Haslina
08 June: Kamal
11 June: Ija
12 June: Izzati
15 June: Reza
16 June: Hasliza
23 June: Hana
30 June: Azita
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